1 Watch the video  and put the
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Clinicians working with (1)____ have started to realise how important
  it was to start to understand the (2)___of electronic media, the internet,
  BBM, all sorts of things on the young people. It is very difficult for us,
  old persons, to understand how much there has been a (3)___ change in
  relationship even between young people because of these new tools. In the
  past, adolescence was really a time of emotional (4)____, discretion and
  sometimes physical (5)_____.  
 Now young people tend to share
  their emotions, their thoughts, their love and to (6)____ it to the world
  through Facebook, through the internet, from very personal (7)____, texts but
  also pictures of them that, in the past, I, we would have (8)____, or maybe
  shared only with a few friends. This also has led to a possibility to get in
  touch with anybody at any time. In the older days, maybe school time was when
  you interacted, but then you went back home. Now at 11 pm, your phone starts
  to (9)____ because somebody has said something about you and then suddenly
  your whole group of friends is starting to comment. Not only this, but
  adolescence was a time where your sense of identity and also of sexual
  identity was developing.  
Nowadays anybody has access to material which 20 years ago, 25 years
  ago was limited to paying adults. Therefore they are going to have to come to
  terms with (10)____, which at a certain age, can be (11)____, but also lead
  sometimes to absolutely surprising expectations with regard to what is okay
  or not, and how one should (12)____ with one’s boyfriend or one’s girlfriend.
  More deeply than this, there is an issue with the development of what I would
  call identity, subjectivity. 
The (13)____ Jacques Lacan talks about the ‘mirror stage’, as a key
  phase in the development of personality. This mirror stage is when the child,
  a (14)____, for the first time recognises himself or herself in the mirror:
  “This is me.” It is a very important moment because before that you had a
  sense of yourself but then you start to (15)_____ an image. I mean you’re
  also this, and you (16)____ that what you see in the mirror is what others
  see of you. So you have to (17)____ reality but also a very strange aspect of
  reality, which is your image. This image you can manipulate, you can dress
  up, you can put some makeup on yourself, but at the same time there is
  something that you can’t change, which is the reality of your body - how tall
  you are, how blonde, or dark haired, how fast, how muscular, how pretty. You
  negotiate something with that sense of reality, one of the problems that we
  see now is that when you are dealing with friends through the internet, very
  often you can manipulate this image, you can change it. And the extreme
  example is represented by some games in which you are actually, on screen, an
  avatar. You are an electronic creature, and the quality of this (18)____ you
  determine, you invent. Now if you can be powerful and fast and beautiful and
  clever and always winning for hours and hours and also in your interaction
  with friends, how is this going to impact on the sense of self, when you are
  back to reality, where you’re playing, when you’re having fun with real
  others? What do you expect of them, but also what do you expect of yourself?
  And it is very possible that the very nature of the electronic media is
  having an (19)____ on the developments of structures that, we psychoanalysts
  would call, the ego ideal or narcissism, which actually means in simple terms
  the image of yourself, what you expect of yourself, your value but also your
  hopes, your plans, your (20)___  life. 
How could you deal with the change that this involves, if there’s a
  massive disappointment then in reality when, having being world champion
  footballer on FIFA, a game, then suddenly you can’t kick a ball. Or you
  realise, you may discover over the years that, to kick a ball, you need to
  learn, when actually onscreen it’s a completely different process of
  learning, it’s a learning that is actually (21)_____from one game to the
  other largely? So suddenly you discover that to be as good as you thought,
  you’re going to have maybe to make an effort, to work, to discover and to
  accept that you don’t know, which is the first step towards (22)_____. Could
  it be that it is that sort of electronic impact that explains why nowadays
  young people want to be (23)___? Do they have a skill - can they sing, can
  they act, can they play? Maybe not. Does it matter? No, because actually what
  you want is the status, not necessarily the apprenticeship, the long process
  and actually (24)____ the skills and the qualities (25)___. So there is a
  divorce between reality and the imaginary world. This divorce always existed
  but, in the past, the reality principle brought you back to a more (26)___or
  realistic position. 
Nowadays there is
  an (27)___ amount of (28)___ because what you have experienced as real life,
  but is in fact a virtual life, does not fit your experience of your real
  life. How much is this connected with, not just disappointment, but (29)____,
  is something that we’re going to discover probably over the next 10 to 20
  years, but it’s very important that clinicians, professionals, start to think
  about this modification already now. 
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2 Vocabulary focus. Sudy the words and  word combinations, practise
their translation, spelling. Check your knowledge
in the test. Play vocabulary game and set your own vocabulary game record.
3 Mark the following statements as True or False
1.    
Today young people like secrecy and don’t share their
feelings with friends.
2.    
In the old days young people communicated at school,
but with internet they can start talking even late at night.
3.    
Some images on the internet can be traumatic for young
people.
4.    
Young people never model their behavior with
boyfriends or girlfriends on what they see online.
5.    
Self-image of a person can be changed.
6.    
Internet gives new ways to manipulate and change self image.
7.    
Electronic media is having an impact on the
development of psychic. 
8.    
Ego ideal is very stable and cannot be changed by internet.
9.    
Expectations and skills gained online can be easily
transferred to real life.
10. Young people value
knowledge and are ready to work really hard to become famous.
11. To become internet
celebrity one has to be talented.
12. Virtual life is a
preparation for real life.
4 Answer the Questions
1.    
How do young people use internet and electronic media
today? What kind of information can they share with their friends?
2.    
How has communication pattern changed in recent years?
When, where and with whom do young people prefer to communicate today?
3.    
What is the connection between expectations, real life
relationships and internet?
4.    
What is ‘mirror image’? How is it affected by
internet?
5.    
What techniques can young people use to modify their
image?
6.    
What is the relation between ‘virtual’ skills and
real-life skills? Can internet help gain knowledge or understand its
importance?
7.    
Why do young people want to become stars and
celebrities? How can internet and electronic media help them?